Have you ever heard the saying, "honey, I shrunk the kids"? Well, its sort of the same way here. So, I have my boyfriend, Josh. He has been flirting with my friends (a little). Okay, you might already be saying, "dump him" but i really want this to last. So anyways, i told him to quit texting my friends, no biggie. He quit for a while, but now he has gotten very demanding. My friend informed me just this Sunday that he had tried to text her 16 times!!! 16 times!!!! My other friend told me he had tried to text her too, and that he had even sent her a text that said, "You know you like me". Am I the only one who sees a problem here?!!?? Should I commit to someone stepping all over me and fake a smile every day just to make him happy? I think I deserve better... Sometimes you have to move to the beat of your heart, even when it is filled with hopes and dreams,that can later become fears and sorrows. I don't know which path to take, life was easier before boys.
Love Always, Mouse :) <3
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I agree, life was easier before boys. I also agree that you have a problem. Only you can decide how you are going to react to Josh. Try straight up talking to him, if he can't commit through his actions then do what you have to do to make yourself happy. I know you have talked to him before but this time don't just tell him that it bothers you, let him know what the consequences are if he chooses to not honor your wishes. Then follow through, so in the end you know and feel that you did everything you could to correct the situation. I think you will feel comfortable with whatever the outcome might be. You might not be happy with the outcome but you will be comfortable with it.
ReplyDeleteSorry, you are in such a tough situation. Make sure you don't let it distract you from the rest of your life.
Boys...we don't need no stinkin' boys! Babe...you know how I feel about this situation. Keep a couple of things in mind..."Those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind." If he doesn't like what you are telling him and feels it is out of line with what he wants that is his issue and not yours...good advice for HEART to take as well *wink*. "To thine OWN self be true"...you can only be who you are and you have to respect yourself or no one else will respect you. People only do to you what you allow them to do. If you allow someone to walk all over you...get used to the foot prints on your chest. If you allow someone to consistently throw you under the bus...I'm going to let you borrow my shirt that says, "The view never changes from under the bus." I don't care if it is boys...or friends...any relationship you have needs to be built on mutual respect. That respect pertains to ALL of your boundaries. I know that is easy to say and harder to put in to practice when it comes to matters of the heart but still holds true none the less. No matter what happens...I will be right here with the Chocolate Chip Ice Cream!
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